Financial Responsibilities For Families With Special Needs

Brad Smith • September 20, 2021

Families with a member that has special needs must look at many essential elements when creating a successful financial plan. Here are some unique concerns you’ll want to address.

1. Start To Apply For Government Benefits

The U.S. government offers financial assistance to families with disabled children under age 18 within certain circumstances. Eligibility depends on the degree to which a disability effects a child’s ability to function as well as the family income.


Supplemental Security Income (SSI) payments, which work like social security payments, provide supplemental income, as well as low-cost health care for children. Adults with a qualifying disability can also apply for SSI and Social Security Disability Insurance (SSDI), but qualification for SSDI benefits would require that the applicant have a work and payment history.

2. Benefits of IDEA Law

The Individuals with Disabilities Act (IDEA) is a law that was developed back in 1975 to provide a free public education appropriate for children with disabilities as well as give parents rights and protections when planning their child’s education. The program covers children from birth through high school graduation or age 21.


Disabilities receiving support include:

  • Autism
  • Blindness
  • Emotional disturbances
  • Deafness
  • Hearing impairment
  • Deaf-blindness
  • Intellectual disabilities
  • Orthopedic impairment
  • Speech impairment
  • Traumatic brain injuries
  • Learning disabilities


Unfortunately, merely having one or more of the disabilities included on this list doesn’t ensure that a student will qualify for IDEA. Students must have a disability that is deemed to require special adaptations in their educational curriculum and setting to qualify for assistance under IDEA.

3. Benefits of ABLE Accounts

ABLE accounts are designed for people who have developed a disability before the age of 26. They work somewhat like a 529 college savings account, as the money placed into these accounts is designated for later use and can grow without taxation.


The difference between ABLE and a 529 is that ABLE funds may be used to pay for expenses related to the disability. These expenses can include education, medical equipment, and in-home care–things that SSI and Medicare may not cover.

4. Create A Letter Of Intent

A letter of intent (LOI) is a document that outlines your child’s situation and provides a set of instructions for future caregivers. As a parent, a letter of intent allows you to communicate with your child’s siblings, additional family, and other individuals in your support network about your child’s disability, ensuring they’ll be taken care of in the event you pass away. Download our complimentary letter of intent here.


It’s a good idea to get specific, treating this almost as a “guidebook” for the details regarding your child’s care. Information may include topics like food preferences, a detailed guide to behaviors, and even their preferred modes of communication.

5. Start An Estate Plan

Your best bet here is working with a qualified estate attorney and financial planner with expertise in financial planning for families with special needs. There are many intricacies involved such as tax considerations, trust drafting and trustee selections, and making sure that the family as a whole is on the right track financially. Estate planning is something all parents should do, but it’s essential when a child with special needs is involved.


In the event of your death (or any relative), any bequests could disqualify your child from receiving SSI or Medicaid, which are vital services.


Just $2,000 in your child’s name can jeopardize their standing with government agencies. So, with that in mind, it’s wise to let all family members know that they should not give your child any financial gifts directly.

6. Preparing Life Insurance

Another consideration for the care of your child is life insurance. Having coverage will ensure that your child has enough funds to cover those things not covered by government benefits such as SSI or SSDI.

7. Creating A Special Needs Trust

A special needs trust, is a legal tool that allows a disabled individual to receive an income into the trust without affecting their eligibility for SSI or Medicare benefits, which often don’t cover the full cost of living.


Just as every child is unique, every financial situation is unique as well, so there is no real “one size fits all” trust format for families. Much care must be taken into account when drafting these trusts so that rules are adhered to and that proper language is used to make the trust valid and applicable in preserving your child’s funds.

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