Which Parent Gets To Claim Dependents After Divorce?

Brad Smith • September 2, 2021

Married couples claim their children as dependents on taxes. While recent changes to the tax code have eliminated dependency exemptions, the ability to claim dependents still allows for other tax benefits. But when couples divorce, what happens?

Dependent Claim After Divorce

Most importantly, two parents cannot claim the same dependent. Only one is eligible to do so. Sometimes a separation or divorce agreement will indicate which parent may claim dependents. If it does not, then the IRS looks at several other areas such as:


  • Are you a parent or non-parent? Parents get preference.


  • With whom do the children live most of the time? That parent gets preference. Often, this is the custodial parent.


  • Do you make more money than your ex while sharing equal custody? If so, you will be given preference because it is presumed you provide more support.


  • Are there no parents claiming the children? If you are supporting the kids and have an adjusted gross income greater than the parents of the children, you may qualify to claim them as dependents.


Filing Taxes To Receive Credit

While the IRS does not handle disputes up front, whoever files their tax form first and claims the dependent receives the credits, and whoever files second will have their tax return rejected.


This is a good reason to talk with your ex about this issue, so an agreement is in place before anyone files. If you have a return rejected for that reason and believe you deserve the credits, you can choose to file a claim through IRS Customer Service.

Interested in Working With Us?

If you need any help regarding your business or other legal matters please reach out to us directly here and schedule a call with one of our paralegals on our scheduling page here.

Interested in Working With Us?

If you need help with estate planning or any other legal concerns, we are here for you. Don't hesitate to contact our firm directly for assistance. Our dedicated team is ready to provide support and guidance to you and your loved ones during important life transitions.


Whether you're ready to schedule a strategy session to discuss your specific needs or if you're interested in exploring our wide range of complimentary guides and additional resources, we encourage you to get in touch with us.


With licensed attorneys and offices located in both Illinois and Missouri, we are well-equipped to serve clients in these regions. Reach out to us today and let us leverage our expertise and care to guide you through the legal process.

Helpful Guides

Begin your journey by taking advantage of our collection of complimentary guides.

View Guides

Online Documents

Simple & Convenient, Cost Effective, Attorney Reviewed Documents.

Learn More Here

Recent Posts

Stock market got you nervous?
By Joe Dalton April 4, 2025
It might be time to consider a Roth IRA. Here's why.
Show More
Stock market got you nervous?
By Joe Dalton April 4, 2025
It might be time to consider a Roth IRA. Here's why.
March 6, 2025
Whether due to a sudden illness, an unexpected hospitalization, or other urgent situations, it's important to know what essential documents should be in place and how an attorney can help ensure a smooth transition for your loved ones.
March 6, 2025
Click HERE To View March Newsletter
February 28, 2025
Understanding the difference between an heir and a beneficiary can help you navigate estate planning more effectively and ensure that your wishes are carried out properly.
February 21, 2025
Estate planning is about more than just dividing assets; it’s about making sure your wishes are honored when it comes to your health, finances, and legacy.
February 14, 2025
Beyond understanding the medical aspects, there are critical legal steps you should take to safeguard your rights, clarify your wishes, and prepare for any unexpected situations.
More Posts
Share by: